NDLC Client Endorsements:Impacts of Life CoachingBy D Anthony, New Destiny Life Coaching, September 2011 There aren't too many things in life more personally rewarding than turning off the alarm in the morning and again realizing that the bulk of your hours that day will, once again, be dedicated to something both incredibly meaningful and lasting. How wonderfully fulfilling it is to know you're in the business of making a life-affirming difference in other people's lives. However, it's one thing to believe that your efforts are fostering live truly happier and more fulfilling lives for others. It's another (tremendously gratifying) thing to see and hear it in their highly appreciative own words.
NDLC Client Endorsements
New Destiny Life Coaching is not counseling or therapy in the clinical and traditional sense. NDLC sessions are like having a conversation with yourself, but with a voice of reason present to ensure the conversation doesn’t go too far left or right. A voice of reason that forces you to dig when you want to just gloss over the challenging items... And if you are true to yourself and the process you will come across things that you have forgotten about - or did not even realize. I have always been a fighter for as long as I can remember. And when I say fighter I do not only mean in sense of speaking my mind and fighting for what I believe in, I mean actually fighting. During middle school, I was suspended, or on In-school suspension, at least twice a month. I remember my grandmother thinking I was never going to make it out of middle school. Even as an adult, I would fight for what I believe in with so much passion sometimes others just stop listening to me. During one of my more draining sessions, it was discovered why I felt the need to always fight. It turns out it was because of the death of my best friend and cousin. He drowned at the age of nine. I was only seven at the time. His death marked a change in me. See my cousin would always protect me. He would fight for me. I never had to do much just be there for him and that was enough for him and enough for me. We were really close. Thirty-three years later, and I cannot even tell you how many years since I have even really thought about the impact that his death has had on my life - until that session. And as I write this, I am fighting just thinking about the impact of his death on my life. I need to think about the impact each day and in each situation that I find myself fighting and ask myself if the fight is a fight that I really need to fight - or do I walk away and fight another day when it really matters. I recommend New Destiny Life Coaching to anyone that is looking to understand who they are - and why they are the way they are. I also recommend NDLC for anyone who is looking to make changes, but are terrified to death - and do not know why. - Nichole (Maryland)
Life Coach D Anthony is a very perspective, insightful and knowledgeable person. He is able to get you to delve into some of your deepest feelings and give you guidance in how to make the necessary and empowering changes. Changes that will make your life better and more fulfilling… Sure, like most people, I thought… “I don’t need a Life Coach.” Then I spoke with D Anthony… and guess what? I need a Life Coach – and D Anthony is the one I choose. – J.R. (Philadelphia, Pennsylvania)
After receiving my vision statement from D Anthony, I felt both honored and thankful that he took the time to put into words something I was not equipped to articulate. In the middle of one of our sessions, I just got quit because I discovered that I had no “Passion” in my life. Not only that but I was in denial about wanting and needing it. I determined that a childhood trauma caused me to feel that if I just stayed “invisible” I could not get into any trouble. I felt like if I was too happy, people would not believe what happened to me as a child (“how could someone be that happy if that really happened” were the voices in my head) and if I was too sad, no one would like me. So I learned at a very young age to just always stay in the middle of the road…no real highs and no real lows….but also NO PASSION!!! Not wanting the feeling of vulnerability ever again, I had convinced myself that I didn’t need “Passion”. I had associated “Passion” with “Vulnerability” and working through my vision statement was the first time I realized this connection. I broke down in tears but again not wanting to feel vulnerable I just got quit. D Anthony didn’t let me off that easy. He said “what’s going on”? He allowed me to discover and investigate the triggered emotion that I had kept hidden for almost 40 years.
I am now on the path of pushing through that wall of vulnerability and looking forward to the “PASSION”!!!
- Teey (46), (California)
I can not tell you how different these sessions have already made - I tried to share a bit today - but it's is amazing! Thank you SO MUCH for your initial investment in me to get me started.
- Coaching Client, (Florida)
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